Asking for consent to send is sexy, too and a great way not to be creepy.” If you’re sending a dick pic the first day we’re chatting, then I’m likely to be turned off, but if we’ve been chatting for a while and have gone into sexy talk, then it can be great. To give you one perspective, 26-year-old pseudonymous Helen, a self-proclaimed dick pic fan, says: “The best time for me to receive one is after we’ve already chatted a bit and got to know each other. One person might love sending nudes early on – even on the first day you start talking – another may prefer to wait until you’re further into your relationship, and some may never want to. You also need to ask: is this an appropriate time in this specific relationship to send a dick pic? This will be different for every individual and every relationship. In fact, definitely don’t send it unless they’ve told you they’re into that kind of thing. If it’s 10AM on a Tuesday and you know the person you’re sending a dick pic to will be in the office, then maybe don’t send it.
